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Yesterday,

I held a board meeting.

All the usual suspects showed up,

dressed in their loudest opinions.

Every seat at the table

was taken by a version of me

I’ve been trying to outgrow.

But let me tell you what this really was:

a hostile takeover attempt by the most 

corrupt corporation ever assembled

Me, Myself & I Can’t, Incorporated


Self-Doubt

was already there before I walked in.

She took the head seat 

like it was hers by birthright,

setting up shop like a squatter

in the penthouse of my potential.

She smirked.

Then clicked on a slideshow

of all the times

I flinched instead of flew.

Passed out the agenda,

one item only…

my insecurities.

Cleared her throat and said:

“I just want to make sure

we’re being realistic.

You call it growth.

I call it luck.

And luck runs out.”


Anxiety

sat next to her.

Passing around spreadsheets,

highlighted in red,

forecasting every disaster,

even ones that 

haven’t been invented yet.

She interrupted often.

Listing every terrible thing

that could happen if I dared to try.

She scribbled 

worst-case scenarios

on the walls 

in permanent ink. 

She’s been forecasting rain 

for years 

and still can’t understand 

why I won’t 

carry an umbrella to a drought.


Imposter Syndrome

sat in the corner.

Raising her hand 

every ten minutes just to ask:

“Are we sure we deserve to be here?”

What she really meant was:

“I want to make sure 

you stay small 

so I stay relevant.”

She handed out 

business cards

that all said: 

Fraud

as if she’s the 

CEO of counterfeit confidence.

Called me everything 

except my own name.


Fear 

came late.

But she still hijacked the agenda.

Pulled up a chair 

beside Anxiety

fingers steepled,

voice calm like a knife:

“I’m not against progress.

I’m just here to protect you

from being shattered again.”

Then she leaned in 

and whispered:

“I’ve kept you alive longer 

than courage ever could.”

She wasn’t wrong.

But she wasn’t right, either.

Didn’t say much.

She never does.

Just reminds me

what staying quiet can cost.


Shame 

didn’t just sit there this time.

She leaned forward, 

elbows on the table,

voice so soft 

it made me lean in to hear.

Which is how she gets you.

She didn’t rant. Didn’t even raise her tone:

“You should’ve figured this out by now.”

She didn’t blink. Didn’t smile.

She just traced circles 

on the table with her fingertip,

and whispered:

“They only love you 

because they don’t know 

the whole story.”

That was the one that lodged.

She knows exactly where to aim.

She doesn’t throw knives.

She leaves the blade 

on the table 

and lets you press 

your own hand against it.


Grief 

didn’t knock.

She slipped in quietly,

wearing my mother’s perfume.

Didn’t take a chair – she didn’t need one.

She stood behind me,

hands resting on my shoulders

like a weight and a blessing all at once.

She didn’t speak in sentences.

She spoke in sighs,

in the tightening of my throat,

in that ache that feels like both

remembering and losing

at the same time.

When she finally leaned down,

her whisper wasn’t cruel,

but it was unflinching:

“I’m not here to hurt you.

I’m here to make sure 

you don’t forget 

what you’ve loved.”

And then she fell silent again.


Anger 

finally stood.  

Not to yell, just to say:

“I shouldn’t have to audition

  to be enough 

in my own damn skin.”

No applause.

No one disagreed.

She left the room

without slamming the door.


Hope 

kept raising her hand,

but no one called on her.

She brought snacks.

No one touched them.

But it was kind of her to try.


Grit 

nodded quietly,

rolled up her sleeves

and started taking notes.


Confidence

walked in like she’d been here before.

Smiling like she wasn’t invited

but came anyway.

She smelled like rain on pavement –

that clean, sudden reminder –

that you’ve survived every storm so far.

She looked around the table,

and for a second,

nobody spoke.

Everyone in the room leaned in.

Turned right to Self-Doubt:

“You’ve been squatting in

this chair for years.

You don’t own it.”

Then she set down a stack of papers.

Not forecasts, not agendas.

Only receipts.

Moments I’d forgotten I’d already survived.

She didn’t shout. Didn’t plead.

Looked at me and said:

“You’ve done harder things 

than this.You just forgot.”


Belief 

then she stood like a queen reclaiming her throne.

Unshaking.

Didn’t slam a fist.

Didn’t raise a voice.

Cleared her throat and spoke with the quiet certainty of gravity:

“Let the record show: I’ve heard enough. 

This room has memorized my failures,

tattooed them into every conversation. 

But survival is no longer the goal. 

Living is. Every voice here 

was born from something real. 

But not everything real…

is still relevant.“

Then she looked at me. Not around me.

Not through me.

At me.

Her words changed everything: 

“You’re not just a board member. 

You’re the CEO and 

the majority shareholder.

You ARE the quorum.”

Silence fell.

The kind that feels like 

a held breath

between what if and we’ll see.

We took a vote.

It wasn’t unanimous.

It never is.

But belief won by one trembling hand.

Mine.

As we adjourned the meeting 

and headed out the door, 

I almost missed her.


Joy

had been there the whole time.

Standing by the wall,

waiting to be acknowledged.

She held the door open

and smiled

like she knew

I might finally walk through it.

She didn’t need a speech.

Just being there

was a kind of permission.

This morning,

I didn’t wake up fearless.

But after reviewing the minutes

and reading every voice

that tried to stop me

and the one that 

chose to go anyway

I stood.

The ground didn’t cheer 

but it didn’t shake either.

And that was enough to begin

the 

greatest 

corporate comeback 

ever staged in the history of me.

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